Thanks everyone for your kind words.
Merr, our family IS together on this, that is an amazing miracle. I can only imagine how it would be if we were fighting amongst ourselves right now, and pointing fingers and laying blame. Right now my daughter HAS made her choice of where she wants to be and my older son & wife will visit her, wherever, Sunday to talk again about Advance Directives, living wills, and releasing custody of her daughter. Hard subjects even for many healthy adults.
I'm still making healthy meals for myself, watching funny movies, and doing my volunteer work at the Detention Center. Yes, crying at the drop of a hat but that's good. Feeling sucks, but it's better in the long run than stuffing. <~~~ insert wry smile
And...Have YOU made a will and made a decision on an Advance Directive??? It's a gift to your family...and if you're a scrapbooker, you love your family. I know that. Don't let the thought of death scare you from doing this. I've been told none of will actually leave this world alive... I suspect that's true.