Re making him an outdoor cat :- here in Australia we have companies that make cat enclosures. They are like a big cage (sounds bad, but they are great) that is built outside and has tunnels that can come in windows of houses or sheds or joining different larger enclosures. They can be built around trees, in gardens anywhere really. They are used to stop cats killing native birds and procreating everywhere. Something like this might give you a place to put the cat that was safe and away from your bed! My 2 cents worth