[amcmillian]

I think Heather's idea about speaking to her parents or speaking to them together is a great idea. If you are going to back out and I think you should, you should do it soon. She may be angry but she will get over it. She's got some pretty high demands, for a free service. You would think that since you are her Aunt and doing it for free and no additional help, she would be a little more understanding. But family can be like that sometimes, expect so much for nothing. My goodness, you are practically giving her $1,500. I would find a much less expensive and pressure intense gift and be done with it. Although, I'm sure your photography skills are great, or she wouldn't have asked in the first place, but it sounds like she may not be happy no matter how well you do and then she will complain to every family member that will listen. Save yourself the headache.